The trouble with goals is often we are just wishing and wanting unless the path to it is shown or it literally manifests. My take on it is, let your intuition be your guide. Intuition, the gut chakra/solar plexus, is the bridge to Higher I, and always true/accurate - ie if your gut message is to move to Hawaii then why did we move to Florida? We go against our intuition then struggle when our choice doesn't work out? No wonder.