''The elf-queene, with hir joly compaignie,
Daunced ful ofte in many a grene mede.”
Geoffrey Chaucer "The Wife of Bath’s Tale"
SAVE THE GRIEF
We're familiar with "Don't cast your pearls before swine" -- good advice from Jesus the Great Master. Most learned quickly to share their gems with others of likemind, and save the grief. Just associate with equals on your level.