Here's an update to beware of wolves in sheep's clothing! Eventually pseudo identities will announce themselves - it's an egoic mind aspect that seeks attention, whatever the cost. This can happen years into a relationship, when it feels safe to surface, but beware - the day will come when this black magic/maliciousness will be aimed at you. Liars and thieves are opportunistic and you're just another target with a bulls-eye on your back so cut the tie and move on, you will not be missed.